REMEMBER THE TIMES

Michael Jackson of blessed memory sang the hit song to always remember the good times you had and always focus on the positives of life.
Take yourself back to how it was when you first met your spouse and wanted to build a lifelong relationship with him/her.  What did it feel like? I remember my time , I wanted nothing more than to spend all my time with my spouse. I saw her in everything , I wanted to outdo myself. Take risks, drive all the way from lagos to Ife on Fridays from my work spend my week end with her and drive like mad first thing on Monday morning straight to my office on the Island without any thought for my own safety. it was great.
My security was secondary , my needs came second to hers. Then we got Married and started to take each other for granted . Holding hands stopped having its thrills. spending time together became so normal and began to lose value. I love my wife and would sacrifice anything for her, but unknowingly I had begun to tke her for granted and my marriage began to suffer from the consequences of my attitude.

Let us learn to take time to renew our fealty towards our spouses.